I have to admit, T Dub seemed pretty normal to me at first. Around 1:55 he starts to get a little, well, insane. Riiiight, TW, “they” start text messaging, drunk dialing, demanding the “truth,” “professing their undying love” and generally being insane (there’s no other word for it – they’re just insane). But what you should do is relationship jiu jitsu – use the “force” of the karate chop breakup and deflect it – this seems to mean “agree” to the breakup while keeping the crazy inside, then use basic reverse psychology to win him/her back.
TW gives more details – guaranteed to provide a lifetime of happiness with someone who decided to break up with you – in his book: Why Lovers Leave.
Hey T Dub!
How are you? Well I hope. I watched your video because I obviously have been through a breakup. I was just curious if you think the letter method would still be an option if it’s approaching a year now since we have been together. Unfortunately I did all the crazy stuff to try and win him back as well. His family also has issues with me that factors into the whole situation. Anyway, I would love to hear your thoughts, suggestions, and or comments. Thank you for your time. 🙂
can you send me your mail…..i dont hav your email id, so its difficult fr me 2 contact you directly…thanq
Please can you help me get him back!! I have read you are a miracle worker.. Can you also help save my life?
Very informative and very sincere. Sure he is a bit crazy at points, but that is necessary considering we are dealing with matters of the heart, which are far from sane.
T.Dubb,
my fiance, broke up with me back in Sep/08. I’m totally devastated. I don’t even understand the reason he ended our 5 years relationship.Since then i have done all the wacky outrageous things to get him back, the terror texting, drunk dialing to him, his family, one female friend, checking his facebook, phone records, begging pleading, professing my undying love to him.
I only just started researching ways to win your ex back and i came across you. I plan on sending him the letter. i’ve also tried to going out, pretending to be doing fine and ensring that he knows that i’m doing fine. I really love him and know that we will be good together, it is why we were together for 5 years. I actually stop calling and texting for 5 days and he called, but it was casual, he wanted to see how I was doing. so i’m willing to send thte letter, stop calling, texting and see what happends.
Thanks,
Andy
ok I have read your book, and I am now in the waiting period. Last week he text me and I didnt know what to do. So I didnt reply back to him. I havent heard anything since. Was that the right thing to do?